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问题解答：

智商与情商哪个重要？

英文翻译

Which one is more important, IQ or EQ

语法说明：

这是一个选择疑问句。

选择疑问句是用or连接询问的两部分，以供选择，答案必须是完整的句子或其省略形式。一般提出两种或两种以上的可能，问对方选择哪一种。

其结构可用一般疑问句，也可用特殊疑问句，供选择的两部分用or连接。

前者读升调，后者读降调。

more important

是形容词的比较级。

重点词汇解释：

important

~ (to sb) having a great effect on people or things; of great value

重要的；有重大影响的；有巨大价值的

例句：

Listening is an important part of the job

倾听是这项工作的一个重要部分。

IQ

a measurement of a person's intelligence that is calculated from the results of special tests (abbreviation for 'intelligence quotient' )

智商（全写为intelligence quotient）

例句：

He possesses an IQ of only 77

他的智商只有 77。

EQ

a measure of a person's interpersonal and communication skills (abbreviation for 'emotional quotient')

情商（全写为emotional quotient）

例句：

Guy was elected leader and then found to have the highest EQ on a nominal measure  

盖伊当选领导，在后来一次定类测量中发现他的情商是最高的。

If we don't own high IQ, does it mean that we will never achieve the success The answer is ''no'' We still have another form of attribute called "EQ'' What are ''EQ'' for As a matter of fact, it is independent of IQ and play an important role of deciding how we can lead our own lives It means an attitude of looking at things at your hands, people around you, so to speak, the outside world and yourself A person with high EQ makes out how to cope with everything which he have to face and can handles it successfully He also knows how to get on well with other people even if he dislikes them Maybe his IQ is not high, however, it doesn't prevent him from embracing the success Maybe many people who are smarter than him are willing to help him because of his kindness

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The truth is that we can do little to change our IQ but do much to improve our EQ greatly As long as you pay more attention to study practical EQ techniques and apply them to real life, you will find your life is becoming better than before and success probably is waving its hands ahead of you

IQ vs EQ

by R Rubadeau

While IQ (Intelligence Quotient) defines how smart you are, EQ (Emotional Quotient) defines how well you use what smarts you have Peter Salovey, Yale psychologist and author of the term EQ, states that IQ gets you hired, EQ gets you promoted He also suggests that it's important to redefine, in our complex world, what it means to be smart In short, when it comes to "predicting future successes," brainpower, as measured by IQ and standardized achievement tests, may actually matter less than the character, or EQ of an individual

Salovey tells of a simple test where four year olds are invited into a room and are given the following instruction: "You can have this marshmallow right now; or if you wait, you can have two marshmallows when I get back" Then, the researcher leaves Some kids grab for the treat the second he's out the door, while others wait for the researcher to return The results are recorded and Science waits for the kids to grow up By the time the kids reach high school, significant differences appear between the two groups The kids who held out for two marshmallows were better adjusted, more popular, more adventurous, more confident, and more dependable than kids in the quick gratification group The latter group was also more likely to be lonely, more easily frustrated, more stubborn, more likely to buckle under stress, and more likely to shy away from challenges When both groups took scholastic aptitude tests, the "hold out group" walloped the "quick gratification group by 210 points (the test scores range from a minimum of 200 points to a maximum of 800, with an average for all students of 500 points)

Did you ever wonder what happened to the smartest kid in the class who didn't end up being successful, or why some of your friends survive the greatest trauma while others crumble over minor issues Perhaps it is because of differences in a person's EQ EQ is not the opposite of IQ, and indeed it is hoped that people have generous quantities of both But, there is little doubt that people without sufficient EQ will have a hard time surviving in life

For five generations researchers have been discussing whether it's possible to raise a person's IQ Geneticists say No, while social scientists say Yes But while brain power researchers continue the debate, social science researchers have concluded that it's possible to improve a person's EQ, and in particular, a person's "people skills," such as empathy, graciousness, and the ability to "read" a social situation Social scientists continually cite situations where experiences have modified a person's EQ For example, educational researchers indicate that when normal students are introduced to disabled peers, those in the former group dramatically improve their ability to become empathetic and gracious Additionally, the introduction of behaviourally disturbed students in a class of normal aged peers increases the ability of the latter group to learn to "read" social situations A more profound improvement is frequently noted in the behaviourally disturbed student as well

Social scientists conclude that EQ is perhaps best observed in people described as either pessimists or optimists Optimists have high EQ and treat obstacles as minor, while the pessimistic low-EQ group personalizes all setbacks In social research circles, high EQ denotes one's ability to survive, and it's here that there may be an overlap between EQ, IQ, genetics and environment In this regard, I am reminded of the words of Darwin, "The biggest, the smartest, and the strongest are not the survivors Rather, the survivors are the most adaptable" Those of us who survive and thrive in this complex world are not only the most adaptable, but also the most optimistic and the most likely to have a high EQ

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二：

　这年头，在职场打拼，发现智商和才华真是关键配备，我发现高智商的人都有这十个特点。

　超高智商的人有这10个特点

　1

　Intelligent people stay up late

　高智商的人都是夜猫子

　你是日出而作，日落而息型的人吗

　首先恭喜你，你这样的作息节奏很健康。但是，科学家却发现：晚睡可能才是高智商的一种表现。

　Some studies show that more intelligent children grow up to be nocturnal as adultsThere’s a neat bit of science behind this theory Almost every living organism is governed by circadian rhythm, the internal clock that sets sleep/wake cycles

　一些研究表明：高智力的孩子成年后都睡得晚。这背后其实有理论支撑。那就是尽管所有的生物体受昼夜节奏的支配，也就是体内调节睡眠和清醒的生物钟。

　The theory is that more intelligent individuals evolved to actually manipulate their sleep cycles, thus adapting more successfully to modern life

　但那些更聪明的人，进化出一种本领，可以调节睡眠周期，这样他们能更好地适应现代生活。

　2

　Birth order effects intelligence

　出生顺序也会影响智力

　你有兄弟姐妹吗你在家里排位老几

　如果你是你们家的长子或长女，那么恭喜你，你可能是最聪明的。

　这背后其实也是有理论支撑的。这是因为：

　Older siblings may be more intelligent because they receive more mental stimulation during critical stages of development

　长子女之所以更聪明是因为他们在发育关键阶段，接受了更多的脑力锻炼。

　当然啦，如果你不是长子女，也不要灰心了。

　研究还表明：

　Research also shows that while older siblings may be more intelligent, younger siblings are actually more likely to be successful in life

　尽管长子女更聪明，但家里的弟妹可能更容易取得成功。

　3

　Cat people are smarter

　猫咪铲屎官可能更聪明

　铲屎官之间也有battle，而且还和智商有关。

　Carroll University conducted a study that measured personality traits, including intelligence among self-described cat lovers and dog lovers The study found that dog lovers’ social skills are more advanced, but cat lovers scored higher on intelligence markers

　Caroll大学做了个实验，用来衡量性格特征，包括研究狗狗铲屎官和猫咪铲屎官这两者的智商。结果发现：狗狗铲屎官社交能力更强，但猫咪铲屎官的智商水平更高。

　研究发现，养猫、还是养狗可能透露出你的内在性格。

　Dog owners tend to be extroverted and seek companionship

　养狗的人可能更外向、需要别人陪伴。

　Cat owners, on the other hand, are usually more introverted, which gives them ample time to focus on reading, thinking, and accumulating information

　而养猫的人，相对比较内向。他们会花更多的时间来阅读、思考、积累资讯。

　4

　People with high IQ are disorganized

　高智商的人有点脏脏乱乱的

　如果你的房间总像是台风过境，乱糟糟的，那么恭喜你，你智商很高哦。

　According to a study from the University of Minnesota, a messy space spurs creative thought

　根据明尼苏达大学的一项研究表明：房间乱糟糟的人，更具创意。

　In the study, participants who were placed in a tidy space made traditionally “good” choicesBut when asked to come up with new uses for ping pong balls, the messy-room participants overwhelming came up with creative and novel ideas

　研究发现：那些处于整洁空间的人，往往只会依据传统，做安全的选择。而一旦被要求想想乒乓球的新用法，在乱糟糟环境中的参与者会有惊人的创意想法。

　没错，混乱是一种创造力的表现，而创造力就是高智力的一种表现。

　5

　Breast-fed babies are more intelligent

　母乳喂养的孩子更聪明

　在科学界，母乳喂养的好处已经讨论过很多次了。

　这是因为：母乳的确是一种天然的超级食物，含有婴儿成长所需的所有营养。

　According to Betty Vohr, a professor at Brown University, “The benefit is likely due to long-chain fatty acids found in breast milk” Long-chain fatty acids, like DHA, aid infants in association and memory development, which may help them develop a higher IQ

　根据布朗大学的Betty Vohr教授的研究：母乳厉害之处在于含有长链脂肪酸。而这种物质，和DHA的作用是一样的，可以帮助孩子联想和记忆发育，这会让孩子的IQ更高。

　当然啦，如果你是奶粉喂养，其实也没关系，只要记得买含有DHA的配方奶就可以了。

　6

　They engage in one-sided conversation

　聪明的人喜欢自言自语

　在《福尔摩斯》中，你可能有注意到：卷福扮演的福尔摩斯总喜欢自言自语，而且语速飞快。

　科学研究发现：自言自语可能是高智商的表现。

　Problem-solving out loud can help organize thoughts and actions In addition, talking to yourself can help you focus and complete specific tasks faster

　讲出你的脑回路有助于组织思路和行动。此外，自言自语还能帮你更好地集中注意力，更快完成任务。

　7

　Curiosity leads to higher intelligence

　好奇也会提高智商

　传统意义上来说：智商(IQ)和情商(EQ)是衡量智慧的两种参数。

　但现代研究发现，还有一种商数至关重要，那就是CQ--Curiosity Quotient，也就是好奇商。

　好奇不但不会杀死猫，还会让你更聪明。这是因为：

　Individuals with a higher CQ are more accepting of the unknown, preferring to ask questions and form their own hypotheses

　好奇心更重的人更容易接受未知事物，会常常发问，做出自己的猜想。

　这样一来，在无形中，人的智力就会慢慢提升。

　8

　Instrument makes you smarter

　学一种乐器让你更聪明

　乐器也是提高智力的大神器。

　Studies show that children who play an instrument “develop ‘neurophysiological distinction’ between certain sounds that can aid in literacy, which can translate into improved academic results for kids”

　科学研究发现：学乐器的孩子神经生理能力更强，可以辨别各种声音，而这些可以帮助提高阅读能力，最终会转化为优异的学习成绩。

　但也有研究说了：一个人去学乐器，可能是因为家里本来就比较有钱，父母有能力送孩子去各种兴趣班，有一种先天优势在里面。

　但不管怎么说，科学家说让孩子去接触艺术总是好的，这样可以帮助孩子拥有更宽广的世界观，提高智力水平。

　9

　A sense of humor indicates intelligence

　有幽默感的人更聪明

　现在不是有个说法嘛：好看的皮囊千篇一律，有趣的灵魂万里挑一。

　这话可不是说着玩的。有趣的灵魂确实万里挑一，因为高智商的人确实更有趣。

　In one study, students were asked to come up with captions for New Yorker cartoons The captions that students found funniest were overwhelmingly written by those who performed higher on IQ tests

　在一项研究中，学生被拉去看《纽约客》上卡通片的标题，结果发现：那些最搞笑的标题是那些IQ测试分数很高的人写出来的。

　这是为什么呢

　According to Reader’s Digest, people who appreciate dark jokes are more intelligent One reason for this is that it takes a greater mental capacity to process a dark or complicated joke as opposed to the simplicity of a knock-knock joke

　根据《读者文摘》的报道：那些能欣赏黑色幽默的人往往更聪明。其中一个原因是因为黑色幽默或复杂消化需要动用更多的脑力去处理。

　10

　Intelligent people are more humble

　聪明的人更谦虚

　不知道你有没有注意过：那些总喜欢自吹自擂的人，其实都是凡夫俗子(mediocre)。

　而这，就是认知学中的达克效应。

　达克效应，全称为邓宁-克鲁格效应(Dunning-Kruger effect)。

　它是一种认知偏差 (cognitive bias)现象，指的是能力欠缺的人在自己欠考虑的决定的基础上得出错误结论，但是无法正确认识到自身的不足，辨别错误行为。

　这些能力欠缺者们沉浸在自我营造的虚幻的优势之中，常常高估自己的能力水平，却无法客观评价他人的能力。

　Basically, the Dunning-Kruger Effect is a cognitive bias whereby incompetent people (like that coworker) can’t recognize their own incompetence, and what’s more, they tend to believe the opposite about themselves

　相反，真正高智商的人不仅很少自吹自擂，还会常常对自己能力感到疑惑。

　好了，这10个特点，你有几个呢

　培养孩子“三高”

　智商没有想象的那么重要

　心理学家认为，智商是对一般认知能力的测量，智商高的人，一般学习成绩较好。但这并不表明，成绩好就能在未来获得更大的成就。

　曾经有这么一个经典的实验，心理学家对一些在不同环境中长大的同卵双胞胎进行追踪调查。因为同卵双胞胎基因完全一模一样，就像一个人一样。这样就可以假设一个人在不同的家庭环境中长大、拥有不同的教育背景时，所呈现出来的不同的智商。

　然而，心理学家意外的发现，即使同卵双胞胎在不同的家庭长大，但成年后的智商测试分数仍然十分接近。这就表示智商有基因决定，教育并不能显著提高智商。

　虽然说遗传是决定智商高低的主要因素，但是，也有很多教育心理学家对于这项测试有质疑，认为现有的测试并没有全面地测试人类的认知能力，它们忽略了一个重要的心智维度：理性。

　许多高智商的人物在做事情的时候都缺乏理性，聪明人也常常干傻事。

　还有一个特别好的比喻，如果人脑是电脑，那么智商仅仅是CPU的转速。但是，衡量一个电脑好坏的标准，并不只是CPU，还取决于电脑内安装了什么样的软件。

　我们家长对于孩子的教育，就是为这“电脑”更新内存、装载软件的过程，让孩子学习技能与知识，培养理性思考的习惯，足以忽略智商之间那种微不足道的小小差距。况且，人类都是正态分布的，智商极高和智商极低的人都是极少数，大多数人都集中在平均值附近，那还有什么忧虑的呢

　情商高的核心是品质好

　很多家长对于情商的理解，普遍都是能说会道、嘴皮子利索、爱耍小聪明，并且拥有超高的社交能力。

　实际上，情商高更多指向于能更好的管理自己情绪的能力，不仅包括自我精神状态的调整，还包括与人和睦相处的能力。

　一句话来说明，就是能让别人舒服、自己也舒服的能力。通常情商高的人，内心更宽容、待人更礼貌、处理问题更客观，而这些综合实力之后就是个人品质的差别。

　孩子的情商培养，就是对个人品质的强调与重视。培养孩子的情商，应该注意这4点：

　1学会赞美

　让孩子学会基本的礼貌，比如吃饭的时候对服务员说谢谢，打扰别人时说“不好意思”等等。家长应该适当教导孩子，让孩子从小学会好好说话，做一个不吝啬赞美的人。

　嘴甜的孩子，有糖吃。“学会赞美”是情商提升的入门课，是孩子学习的必修课。

　2不发牢骚

　家长要教会孩子不戳人痛点，不拿人家的缺陷和不幸来取笑。同时，正确地处理负面情绪，少发牢骚少抱怨，也是高情商的重要表现。我们都知道，牢骚和抱怨都是很强的负面情绪，指责别人对外发泄怨气的同时也是在“内耗”，这于人于己都是不利的。

　聪明的家长，会和孩子坐下来深入沟通谈判，首先弄清孩子发牢骚的原因，并正确疏导负面情绪，让孩子改变负面心理倾向，正确面对问题，解决问题。

　3有点小幽默

　幽默是应对困难的最好良药。幽默具有愉悦身心、消除疲劳、缓解紧张情绪等很多很多作用，幽默能使人快乐，使人笑。幽默感强的人，可以把困难过成欢笑。

　相传，古希腊哲学家苏格拉底有个鼎鼎大名的暴脾气妻子。一次苏格拉底在和客人谈话时，妻子怒气冲冲地跑进来大骂苏格拉底，还将一桶水泼在苏格拉底的头上。对此，他并没有生气，而是对着大家说：“我早就知道，大雷之后，一定会下雨的。”本来十分尴尬的场面，通过一句幽默之词就能大事化小，可见幽默的作用。

　我们的孩子，如果能幽默起来，压力会小、成绩也会更好。家长在陪伴孩子的时候，可以有意识地培养孩子的幽默感，为孩子分享一些笑话，也尝试让孩子给大家讲笑话，一起欢乐起来。

　4认真倾听

　“上天给了我们两个耳朵，却只给我们一个嘴巴，意思是让我们多听少说。”

　家长应该多多倾听孩子的心声，孩子才能学着倾听家长的心声。在面对一些成长的烦恼的时候，我们应该试着先让孩子说，首先学会倾听，再发表意见。父母如果能做到善解人意，孩子也会成为一个善解人意的人。

　高情商的人，可以处理与人相关的复杂环境，这是一项十分重要的能力。人的本质是一切社会关系的组合。情商高的人，更容易在社会中生存，更容易得到成功的青睐。

　逆商的目的是拥有一个健康的心态

　逆商，说到底是抗击打能力。新东方创始人俞敏洪，高考连续考了三年，第一年英语33分，第二年55分，第三年95分，所以才有机会进入北大。

　当一个孩子有逆商的时候，他会发现人生中出现的很多困境、失败、痛苦都是为未来在做准备，逆商的本质是拥有一个健康积极的心态。胜不骄，败不馁，奔着目标一直走。

　所以，家长应该培养孩子在面临困难时保持良好的心态，即使失败也不可怕，而应该顽强奋起、积极再战。

　逆商，就像一个球队的守门员，防守住迎面而来的打击，即使失败也要重新站起，从而迎接更多的不可知。

　孩子的命运是由多层因素组成的，孩子有没有逆商他，能不能承受住打击;有没有情商，跟人打交道是不是特别流畅，做人是不是非常到位，这都是孩子成长中至关重要的品质。

1、只有想不到，没有做不到。

Only a surprise, no can't do it

2、忍耐力较诸脑力，尤胜一筹。

Endurance is the mental, dominates

3、一个人的态度，决定他的高度。

A person's attitude determines his height

4、笛里谁知壮士心，沙头空照征人骨。

pare e true

50、成功是用努力，而非用希望造成。

Success is by effort, not by hope

51、要想改变命运，首先改变自己。

If you e wasn't built in a day

71、莫等闲，白了少年头，空悲切。

Mo, a juvenile white head, empty sadness

72、生命不止需要长度，更需要宽度。

Life needs not only length, but also width

73、愿君学长松，慎勿作桃李。

/，还靠自己。

On the earth, by the earth, and by oneself

75、你不怕困难，困难就怕你。

You are not afraid of difficulties, and difficulties are afraid of you

76、志不立，天下无可成之事。

There is nothing to succeed in the world

77、我之所以能，是因为我相信能。

I can, because I believe in it

78、穷且益坚，不坠青云之志。

The harder pressed, the stronger, do not fall Albatron ambition

79、穷则思变，既要变，又要实干。

Qiongzesibian, not only need to change, but also hard work

80、智商决定录用；情商决定提升。

IQ decides to hire; EQ decides to improve

高考励志英文句子

1、考试，不仅是智力的竞争，更是意志态度精神的竞争。

Examination, is not only the competition of intelligence, but also the spirit of the spirit of the competition

2、自己的青春自己奋斗，自己的人生自己作主。

Their youth themselves, their oplacent, others are not stupid

19、眉毛上的汗水和眉毛下的泪水，你必须选择一样！

The bro a small river

55、努力造就实力，态度决定高度。

Efforts to create strength, attitude determines altitude

56、努力吧，飞向属于自己的明天！

e a burden, become a shado strength, strength comes from hard a little careless, do not give up hope

关于婚纱的英文句子 关于婚纱唯美英文句子

下面给大家精选了一些关于婚纱的英文句子，喜欢这些关于婚纱的唯美英文句子的朋友可以看一下吧!

1婚纱是每一个女孩子所向往的,各种漂亮的婚纱礼服让我们眼花缭乱。e of the ideas just en

4我想和我亲爱的闺蜜一起举行婚礼。

I plained of course not long for SB one loves

7婚礼是每个女孩最完美的梦，婚纱则是梦的嫁衣

The perfect wedding is every girl's dream wedding is dream of Jia Yi

8、咬著唇边 穿起婚纱上路 余生请你指教

Bit his lip edge wear wedding rest of you please enlighten road

9、婚纱既体现出美丽漂亮，更加的体现出小鸟依人以及可爱之至，新娘走进教堂，头上的婚头纱衬托着她的美丽，就连脖子上的项链也闪闪发光，必定是耀眼可爱的。

Beautiful beautiful wedding not only reflect, reflect more innocent girl and pretty matter, the bride entered the church, the head of the wedding veil off her beauty, even on the neck necklace sparkling, dazzling must be lovely

10、婚纱其实就是女人心底一个最温暖、最柔情的梦，在女人的心里最深处静静地蛰伏着，随时等待着一阵风起，直到吹得心旌摇曳，吹得婚纱裙袂飘飘。

ernal love their man

12、那件层层叠叠轻纱弥漫，缀满软缎织就的玫瑰和宝石拼镶的婚纱，是对爱情的期盼，是对幸福的憧憬。

Filled with layers of veil that piece, encrusted satin weave roses and wedding gemstone inlaid fight is the expectation of love, is a happy dream

13、那一件薄薄的婚纱，承载着我们许多的梦想和希望。

That a thin dress, carrying many of our dreams and hopes

14、我定定地、定定地望着这件婚纱，困惑至极。这就是我印象中完美的那一件吗分明，它的颜色不够纯正，它的细纱不够轻盈，它的珠绣不够精致。还有，经过磨练后的双眼分明辨出，它的质地几近低劣，它的款样，亦不是华丽中的简单，竟是纯粹的简单啊。在看过的所有婚纱中，它实在很不怎么起眼的。

I the eye

15、我想每个女人都是喜欢婚纱的，每个女人的梦里都有一件美仑美奂的婚纱，不论她丑陋俊美，也不论她有没有已过了穿婚纱的时节。

I think every an's life must ent There are also many original marriage of my heart that light ewhat unrealistic, still far from it, like most East es, not the special way, is Tonggui Love is one thing, a man threw a person's Lengnuanzizhi, a man forever, nothing other e a supporting role, trapped in the prison of your love

上面给大家精选的关于婚纱的英文句子、关于婚纱的唯美英文句子，希望大家喜欢!

青春励志英文句子

1、除了自己，任何人都无法给你力量。

No one can give you strength except yourself

2、生活真象这杯浓酒，不经三番五次的提炼呵，就不会这样可口!

Life like this cup of liquor, again and again e trapped about, and other peoples experience, the average person to learn their oe simple

36、经过海浪的一番磨砺，卵石才变得更加美丽光滑。

The ter

48、三十年河东，三十年河西，莫欺少年穷!

Thirty years east of the river, thirty years in the tle for a small achievement Ask yourself: my life is like this

52、当你的才华还撑不起你的野心时，那你就应该静下心来学习。

up after a fall of the weak can only taste the bitterness of failure, only unyielding struggle to win victory

首先，情商对个人的人际关系和社交能力有着直接的影响。一个人的情商高意味着他们能够更好地理解和掌握自己的情绪，并且能够准确地感知和理解他人的情绪。这使得他们在与他人交往和沟通时更加敏感和体贴，能够更好地解决冲突和处理人际关系。与此相反，智商高的人并不一定具备良好的社交能力，他们可能会在与他人互动时显得笨拙或缺乏灵活性，导致人际关系的紧张和不和谐。

其次，情商对个人的领导能力和团队合作能力也起着至关重要的作用。在现代社会，领导者不仅需要具备智力上的优势，还需要具备高水平的情商。领导者需要能够理解和满足团队成员的情感需求，激励他们的积极性，并且能够在压力下保持冷静和理智。情商高的领导者能够建立良好的团队氛围，提高团队的凝聚力和创造力。而智商高的人可能在领导团队时过于理性和缺乏情感的表达，导致团队成员的不满和反抗。

最后，情商对个人的心理健康和幸福感有着重要的影响。情商高的人能够更好地应对压力和挫折，保持良好的心理状态。他们能够有效地管理自己的情绪，避免情绪过度波动和消极情绪的困扰。相比之下，智商高的人可能在情绪管理上存在一定的困难，容易陷入情绪波动和焦虑的状态。

综上所述，情商比智商更加重要。尽管智商在某些领域仍然具有重要作用，但情商对于个人的人际关系、领导能力和心理健康至关重要。在现代社会，我们应该注重培养和发展情商，以实现个人的全面发展和成功。

应该是which is more important, IQ or EQ

不要标题说出去就被人笑话了。。

下面是我以前参考过的文章，也给你参考下吧。。

While IQ (Intelligence Quotient) defines how smart you are, EQ (Emotional Quotient) defines how well you use what smarts you have Peter Salovey, Yale psychologist and author of the term EQ, states that IQ gets you hired, EQ gets you promoted He also suggests that it's important to redefine, in our complex world, what it means to be smart In short, when it comes to "predicting future successes," brainpower, as measured by IQ and standardized achievement tests, may actually matter less than the character, or EQ of an individual

Salovey tells of a simple test where four year olds are invited into a room and are given the following instruction: "You can have this marshmallow right now; or if you wait, you can have two marshmallows when I get back" Then, the researcher leaves Some kids grab for the treat the second he's out the door, while others wait for the researcher to return The results are recorded and Science waits for the kids to grow up By the time the kids reach high school, significant differences appear between the two groups The kids who held out for two marshmallows were better adjusted, more popular, more adventurous, more confident, and more dependable than kids in the quick gratification group The latter group was also more likely to be lonely, more easily frustrated, more stubborn, more likely to buckle under stress, and more likely to shy away from challenges When both groups took scholastic aptitude tests, the "hold out group" walloped the "quick gratification group by 210 points (the test scores range from a minimum of 200 points to a maximum of 800, with an average for all students of 500 points)

Did you ever wonder what happened to the smartest kid in the class who didn't end up being successful, or why some of your friends survive the greatest trauma while others crumble over minor issues Perhaps it is because of differences in a person's EQ EQ is not the opposite of IQ, and indeed it is hoped that people have generous quantities of both But, there is little doubt that people without sufficient EQ will have a hard time surviving in life

For five generations researchers have been discussing whether it's possible to raise a person's IQ Geneticists say No, while social scientists say Yes But while brain power researchers continue the debate, social science researchers have concluded that it's possible to improve a person's EQ, and in particular, a person's "people skills," such as empathy, graciousness, and the ability to "read" a social situation Social scientists continually cite situations where experiences have modified a person's EQ For example, educational researchers indicate that when normal students are introduced to disabled peers, those in the former group dramatically improve their ability to become empathetic and gracious Additionally, the introduction of behaviourally disturbed students in a class of normal aged peers increases the ability of the latter group to learn to "read" social situations A more profound improvement is frequently noted in the behaviourally disturbed student as well

Social scientists conclude that EQ is perhaps best observed in people described as either pessimists or optimists Optimists have high EQ and treat obstacles as minor, while the pessimistic low-EQ group personalizes all setbacks In social research circles, high EQ denotes one's ability to survive, and it's here that there may be an overlap between EQ, IQ, genetics and environment In this regard, I am reminded of the words of Darwin, "The biggest, the smartest, and the strongest are not the survivors Rather, the survivors are the most adaptable" Those of us who survive and thrive in this complex world are not only the most adaptable, but also the most optimistic and the most likely to have a high EQ